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..:: Sharing Stories - Marriage ::..

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- this is sharing stories session -
To those who are married, .. Not married .. and soon to be married
MARRIAGE
When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.
Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? I avoided her question. This made her angry.. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Dew. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!
With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car,…

..:: Something Beautiful ::..

A Story of "Unconditional Love" to live by

There was a blind girl who hated herself because she was blind. She Hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for Her.

She told her boyfriend, 'If I could only see the world, I will Marry you.'

One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her. When the bandages came off, she was able to see everything, including her Boyfriend.

He asked her, 'Now that you can see the world, will you marry me?' The Girl looked at her boyfriend and saw that he was blind. The sight of his closed eyelids shocked her. She hadn't expected that.

The thought of looking at them the rest of her life led her to refuse to marry him.

Her boyfriend left in tears and days later wrote a note to her saying:
'Take good care of your eyes, my dear, for before they were yours, they were mine.'

This is how the human brain often works when our status changes.

Only a very few remember what life was like before, and Who was/is always b…

..:: Embracing Imperfection ::..

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Touching story one could use in class...about acceptance, give & take, relationships..

A beautiful story to ponder upon… if everyone in this world learn to accept others’ mistakes and forgive each other… life will move smoothly.This is a nice story......

A story by a girl.

"When I was a little girl, my mom like to make breakfast food for dinner every now and then. And I remember one night in particular when she had made breakfast after a long, hard day at work..

On that evening so long ago, my mom placed a plate of eggs, sausage, and extremely burned toast in front of my dad. I remember waiting to see if anyone noticed!
Yet all my dad did was reach for his toast, smile at my mom, and ask me how my day was at school. I don't remember what I told him that night, but I do remember Watching him smear butter and jelly on that toast and eat every bite!

When I got up from the table that evening, I remember hearing my mom apologize to my dad For burning the toast. And I'll never…

..:: wuhhuuu ::..

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hehe semalam telah berjaya membuat lawatan ke kedai 'bakeri supplies' huhu... seronok betul rasanya duk dlm kedai tu... hehe... terasa mcm kanak2 didlm kedai mainan lak...

mula2 ingatkan nak beli brg2 utk buat kuih je, baking soda, hiasan2 biskut... sekali ternampak lak... oregano yg berharga singgit, bay leaves pun singgit lebih je... so apalagi segala jenis herb yg ada kat situ kena sapu... hehehe... kira benda yg paling mahal dibeli pun cuma buttercup 1kg harga duabelas ringgit je... hehehe...

so balik2 rumah terus berkobar2 buat biskut kurma bercip coklat... bentuk butterflies.... ni sumber inspirasinya tapi hasilnya takdelah secantik itu hikhik... tapi mixer takde so kenalah kerah tenaga tangan sampai pinggang yg sakit... akhirnya dah siap satu jenis biskut raya... walaupun rupa paras nya takde lah secantik spt yg org jual.. tp rasanya seddapp hihi... puji diri sendiri... oppss mlm td lupa kasi hubby dgn aiman rasa...
disebabkan sakit pinggang memukul bancuhan secara manual…

..:: Two choices::..

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What would you do?....you make the choice.

Don't look for a punch line, there isn't one. Read it anyway.

My question is: Would you have made the same choice?


At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves children with learning disabilities, the father of one of the students delivered a speech that would never be forgotten by all who attended.

After extolling the school and its dedicated staff, he offered a question:'When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does, is done with perfection.Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot understand things as other children do.Where is the natural order of things in my son?'

The audience was stilled by the query.The father continued. 'I believe that when a child like Shay, who was mentally and physically disabled comes into the world, an opportunity to realize true human nature presents itself, and it comes in the way other people treat that child.'

Then he told the followi…

..:: sharing of stories ::..

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start minggu ini.... saya akan berkongsi cerita2 yg saya rasa menyentuh perasaan atau pun ada moral value... biasanya saya dpt cerita2 ni dr email... tapi saya mmg bukan jenis yg akan fwd semua benda ke semua org, sbb tak semua org suka dpt email mcm ni dlm email mereka... jadi cara yg lebih baik adalah berkongsi cerita2 ni di blog ni... sekurang2nya takde lah mcm idle lama sgt blog ni... kang naik lak sawang2 yg tak dikehendaki...

so enjoy reading

..:: The Pencil ::..

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(courtesy gugel)


A boy was watching his grandmother write a letter. At one point he asked:‘Are you writing a story about what we’ve done? Is it a story about me?’His grandmother stopped writing her letter and said to her grandson:I am writing about you, actually, but more important than the words is the pencil I’m using. I hope you will be like this pencil when you grow up.’

Intrigued, the boy looked at the pencil. It didn’t seem very special.‘But it’s just like any other pencil I’ve ever seen!’ ‘That depends on how you look at things. It has five qualities which, if you manage to hang on them, will make you a person who is always at peace with the world.’


First quality: you are capable of great things, but you must never forget that there is a hand guiding your steps. We call that hand God, and He always guides us according to His will.’



Second quality: now and then, I have to stop writing and use a sharpner. That makes the pencil suffer a little, but afterwards, he’s much sharper. So…

..:: the dark side of soft drink ::..

ye..saya pun suka minum soft drink tp sejak baca ni mcm cuba control nak minum tapi apakah akan berjaya??? ishk dugaan betul eh cobaan betul...

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That soft drink ... See what it does to your body in 1 hour ! Carbonated Drinks: Learn the Truth!

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A study by a Brazilian Professor from Matto Grosso Federal University has revealed the shocking truth about the effects of having a can of carbonated drink.

Learn what happens inside your body in the sixty minutes after you glug down your refreshing sizzling drink…and think carefully!

After just ten minutes, 10 teaspoons of sugar hit your body, 100% of the daily recommended dose. You do not immediately vomit from the overwhelming sweetness because the Phosphoric acid in the drink cuts the taste.

After twenty minutes, the level of sugar in your blood erupts, forcing a rush of insulin. The l…

..:: kisah ramadan ini ::..

sebelum kedatangan (ishk skema lak...) ramadhan ini... adalah berasa sedikit excited keranaaaaa.... sudah boleh gi terawih kat masjid... dah 5 tahun ke 6 tahun tak pegi...2004 heavily pregnant so mcm tak pegi (sebenarnya mcm tak ingat pegi ke tak) 2005 have baby aiman 2006 erina is in the house + a 1yr old boy 2007 aiman is 2 yr old and erina is 1 yr old 2008 aiman is 3 yr old and erina baru 2 yr old 2009 yey aiman dah tak pakai pampers tapi erina still in pampers aaaa... 2010 both dah besar, dah leh ikut arahan dan dah tak pakai pampers so so so bawalah 2 org ni bersolat terawih sekali sama2 aiman okeylah no prob, dia dah pandai ikut solat pun
akan tetapi erina.... ishk menguji kesabaran sungguh... 1st nite okeylah dia terkejut ramai org... so dia duk je kat sebelah and ckp pelan2, walaupun ada a few other kids yg asyik merayau2 nak mengacau org solat 2nd nite baru solat isyak dia tak ikut solat tapi bila org tgh sujud dia jerit 'allahuakbar'.. dalam hati dah membara dan dah rasa mal…

..:: Selamat Menyambut Ramadan ::..

bagaimanakah persiapan ramadan anda???

persiapan saya...
* kemas dapur... dah re-arrange, mop, stock taking... hehehe... tahun ni berazam utk bnyk kan masak sendiri dr membeli, nak mknan2 yg sihat je... dan nak buat kuih raya sendiri... eh itu persiapan raya... dah terkeluar tajuk lak...
* telekung... dah siap2 dibasuh, telekung erina tak tercari.... so dah standby kan tudung dia je utk ajak dia skali gi terawih... dah 6 kali ramadan rasanya tak gi terawih.... itu yg mcm excited sket sbb tahun ni dah leh bawak budak2 ni gi terawih skali... yeyeye :)

tetiba dah takde idea lak nak menulis.... hehehe...

maka nya... disini saya ingin mengambil kesempatan utk mengucapkan
'Selamat Menyambut Ramadhan' semoga aktiviti ramadan kali ini mendapat keberkatan... saya juga ingin memohon maaf kpd anda semua diatas segala kesilapan dan kesalahan yg telah saya lakukan...

:)

..:: sessi berangan ::..

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minggu depan dah start puasa... pastu nak raya... hmmm... ni yg berangan skejap ni brg2 utk dishopping raya... hehe...
1) mixer (kengkonon cukup rajin nak buat biskut sendiri utk raya ni... hihi) hmmm... yg bowl stainless steel ni cantik gak...tp yg biasa2 pun mcm ok je... mana satu yg lebih praktikal ek..
2) langsir....(hmmm nak ganti ke tak... tp kena budget besar hmmm... hmm...) 3) cover sofa (hmmm ni pun budget besar hmmm lain tahun je lah) 4) sarung kusyen baru (haa... yg ni boleh tahun ni tapi.... susahnya nak cari yg berkenan di hati) boleh ke dapat yg mcm ni? ni mcm dah terlebih sudah... hehehe...
5) bookshelf (banyak buku still dalam kotak lagi :( sian buku2 itu...)
eh apsal semua yg diberangan kan adalah barangan rumah.... erk....
okeylah off berangan mode....nak tdo kan 2 org budak yg mcm tak ngantuk lagi...

..:: anecdote 6 ::..

biasanya kalau gi kenduri kahwin org jawa, ada acara baling gula2 (kdg2 + duit) utk budak2.... so masa ahad lepas aiman and erina join skali merebut gula2... walaupun mula2 aiman mcm tanak join...
agak bnyk gak lah hasil kutipan budak berdua tu...dan diorg berlagak lah dengan my brother and my pregnant sister-in-law...
erina: adik dpt banyak gula2.... (dgn muka berlagak) my SIL : ala... bagilah mak usu sket... erina: tak boleh.... my SIL: ala... bagilah mak usu sket je... erina: mcm tu... mak usu kena jd itik dulu
hehehe....